Wife describes 'life-changing' moment she became husband's carer after he was brutally attacked
A woman from Worthing who cares for her husband full-time after he was left with permanent brain damage from being brutally attacked by a group of teenagers, says she feels like her 'life has stopped.'
Alan Willson, 47, was attacked in Longcroft Park on Easter Sunday in 2021, after confronting three boys over a bullying incident.
Alan was in a coma for three months, and was left with brain and retina damage and smashed bones.
He has relearnt to walk - but still cannot talk properly, and relies on Annie to help him with daily tasks.
"When Alan was attacked he was beaten with a log," Annie said.
"I ran out of my house and it was just me, I got to the park and I was a whole different person.
"Nothing can prepare anybody for becoming a carer, its one of the hardest jobs that anybody can ever do,
"My life has stopped, my life isn't my life any more. I don't count any more."
Watch as Alan helps wife Annie make a shopping list
Annie cares for Alan, while trying to also make sure there is enough time for her children and grandchildren.
She allowed our cameras into her home - to experience a day with her ahead of a special ITV Meridian programme exploring the vital role of carers across the region.
"You just put one foot in front of the other. You don't look where you've been, you just look ahead, and if you can do that you'll be alright," she added.
"He's my husband and my soulmate and I love him to pieces."
Annie has told ITV Meridian about the drastic change becoming a carer has had on her life. "I have to schedule a shower.
"I have to schedule a meeting with my friends.
"Carers get £62.70 a week - that is how much our mental health is worth. You can't live off £62.70.
"Who's picking him up from the floor when he falls? Me. We're not calling an ambulance - we don't need to call an ambulance. If he needs emergency medication, I'll give it to him.
"But you have to put a value on carers."
Annie's daughter, Becky Willson said she worries about the toll that caring is having on her mum: "She's so strong, but I do worry because she's alone. I pop over to see her quite a lot."
Annie says she feels she has to protect her family from the pressure she faces
Harry Furlong, 18, was found guilty of inflicting grievous bodily harm at Lewes Crown Court, and jailed for 20 months.
Archie Tilley, 16, and George Tilley, 14, were found guilty of grievous bodily harm with intent. They both received nine years with three additional years on license.
If you or your family are in need of support you can contact the following organisations.
Crossroads Care - 020 8943 9421
Carers UK - 020 7378 4999
Carers Trust - 0300 772 9600
Rethink - 0808 801 0525
Samaritans - 116 123
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