Ukrainian family in Liverpool hope to return home as second anniversary of war approaches
A father in Liverpool who hopes to take his family back to Ukraine has said he wants his son to know "you are British, but you're Ukrainian first", as the second anniversary of the war approaches.
Ian Umney, 30, said his "world fell apart" when he received a call from his wife, Nelia, 27, on 24 February 2022, telling him of Russia’s full-scale invasion of Ukraine.
The war prompted Mr Umney to quit his job in Merseyside as a courier and English teacher so he could travel to the war-torn country to be with Nelia and their now four-year-old son Jonathan – a journey which went viral when he posted it on TikTok.
Mr Umney returned to the UK with his family 11 days later and they have been living in Liverpool for the last two years.
He wants to return to Ukraine to their home in the southern city of Nikopol where he met his wife in 2016.
"With Jonathan, I want him to know yes, you are British, but you’re Ukrainian first – you were born there and that is your land," said Mr Umney.
"We fully intend to return when it is safe for us to do so and we would like to go back to our home in Nikopol, which at the minute isn’t feasible for safety reasons."
It comes as more than 10,000 civilians have been killed and nearly 20,000 injured since Russia invaded Ukraine in February 2022, the UN said.
As the war reaches its second anniversary on Saturday, Mr Umney said the situation is "depressing".
"To be two years into a war that’s not going away anytime soon, it’s depressing for me personally," he said.
"It’s depressing to think we’re two years into a war that didn’t need to happen and doesn’t need to go on.
“I don’t know how I can help as best I can, I don’t know what I can do personally, which frustrates me."
He added that his wife, who is a teacher, feels "distraught" about not seeing her family members in Ukraine.
"She said it’s unnecessary and she’s really upset about it,” he said.
"She’s been quite distraught about not seeing her dad for two years – she really wants to move back and she’s scared for her dad as well."
Mr Umney moved to Ukraine in 2016, where he met his wife, but returned to the UK in 2021 for work.
His wife and son came to visit him and returned to Ukraine in January 2022 when a month later, Russia launched its full-scale invasion.“
"My world fell apart when I got the call from my wife," he said.
"My initial thought was 'I need to get them' and I was desperate to get out the country to at least try and get towards them."
Mr Umney quit his job and went to Ukraine, via Poland, to get his family members in a mammoth journey which involved a cross-country car ride of upwards of 30 hours.
"The best way to describe it was pure luck how things fell into place out of chaos," he said.
Mr Umney said he managed to raise around £2,000 in a few days through TikTok Live in order to buy a car to flee the country because "the trains were too full".
"It was quite hairy at that point and getting out was a stroke of luck," he said.
"I didn’t know if we would make it out, my wife was too scared to leave and I had to really convince her – that was the most difficult part.
"Making it out and getting back to the UK has been the best thing for Jonathan."
Mr Umney said that his son, who was two years old when they fled Ukraine, was “quite reserved” when they first relocated but has been attending nursery and is due to start primary school this September.
"It was a big impact on Jonathan, especially being the age he was,"Mr Umney said.
"Coming out of one environment into a completely different one – it was a massive change for him and he was quite reserved at the beginning.
"It’s always been about Jonathan and getting him into a routine and getting him settled somewhere, and obviously safe."
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