Daughter opens second suicide prevention centre in her father Martin Gallier's name
Video Report by Andrew Fletcher
A suicide prevention charity setup by a woman whose father took his own life is expanding after making 24,500 life saving interventions.
The Martin Gallier Project has opened a walk-in support centre in Chester to add to its original crisis help unit in New Ferry, Wirral.
The charity has grown rapidly since its formation as many people have struggled with their mental health amid pandemic isolation and the financial pain of the cost-of-living crisis.
Chief Executive Jessica Gallier opened the project in 2019, two years after the death of her father Martin.
She believes the "toxic" stigma that led him not to ask for help needs tackling on a "larger scale."
Jessica said: "He was brought up in a time when men don't ask for help, men don't struggle, men provide for their family."
"It's toxic," she added, "because that's what stops people asking for support.
"If we can combat that message with an even stronger message of hope... you are not alone, you are not strange or weird for having these thoughts... that's our job.
"People say to us day in, day out, 'you saved my life, the Martin Gallier Project has saved my life', and that is just beyond comprehension.
"I hope my dad would be very proud, I suppose it's a way he gets to live on through all those people.
"It helps me tremendously, which is very selfish, but it does help me to mitigate that grief knowing there are all those people who are alive because of my dad."
When Martin Gallier took his life, at the age of 55, it was not his first suicide attempt.
After the inquest, Jessica said she thought there had to be a "better way of supporting people in suicidal crisis."
She decided she could keep "banging this drum" to existing services or open her own support charity.
"When I lost my dad to suicide I couldn't settle until I did something about it," she said.
"I thought, there's another way here, there's got to be a better way of supporting people in a suicidal crisis, what did my dad need at that time and how can we create that, and that's what we did with the Martin Gallier Project."
Suicide intervention worker Deryn Basnett told ITV News the aim with each person who asks for help is to "create a safety plan" which keeps them "safe from suicide".
She said: "There's no barriers to access support to anybody over the age of 16.
"You can walk in off the street. We accept people to refer online. We accept referrals from other professionals.
"We don't have any waiting lists. It's immediate access to non-clinical support."
Jessica and her team also offer help to those bereaved by suicide and training to help people intervene to save lives.
"The important thing," she told ITV News, "is to reach out and ask for help."
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CALM
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CALM, or the Campaign Against Living Miserably, runs a free and confidential helpline and webchat – open from 5pm to midnight every day, for anyone who needs to talk about life’s problems.
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Suicide prevention centre in Liverpool offering life-saving support to men in suicidal crisis.
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