Girl, 12, strangled by her boyfriend after their first kiss, porn report warns

Presenter Lucrezia Millarini discusses the report's findings with Richard Collard from the NSPCC

A 12-year-old girl has described being strangled by her boyfriend during her first kiss, according to a new report investigating the impact of children's exposure to porn.

"I will never forget the girl who told me about her first kiss with her boyfriend, aged 12, who strangled her," Children's Commissioner Dame Rachel De Souza said.

"He had seen it in pornography and thought it normal."

She said the Online Safety Bill, which was having its second reading in the House Of Lords on Monday, “must pass through Parliament as an urgent priority”.

The newly published research found one in 10 children in England have viewed pornography aged just nine, with half of those surveyed having seen it by the time they reached the age of 13.

The study also found almost half of young people assume girls 'enjoy' sex involving physical aggression, such as airway restriction and slapping.

Dame Rachel told of being “deeply concerned about the normalisation of sexual violence in online pornography, and the role that this plays in shaping children’s understanding of sex and relationships”.

According to the report, one young person told her "a lot of it [porn] is actually just abuse".

Another remarked: "males can be led to believe women are purely for sex".

Almost half (47%) of respondents aged between 18 and 21 said they had experienced a violent sex act, with girls “significantly” more likely than boys to have experienced an act which could be defined as aggressive, coercive, or degrading, the report stated.

Most young adults (79%) aged 18 to 21 had seen pornography involving sexual violence before turning 18, the report said.

More than a third of young adults said they had sought out violent pornography involving at least one act of sexual violence.

The report found that girls are disproportionately the target of so-called “self-generated” pornography, with 51% aged between 16 and 21 having been sent or shown explicit content involving someone they know in real-life, compared with 33% of boys.

Dame Rachel said: “Let me be absolutely clear: online pornography is not equivalent to a ‘top-shelf’ magazine. The adult content which parents may have accessed in their youth could be considered ‘quaint’ in comparison to today’s world of online pornography.

“Depictions of degradation, sexual coercion, aggression and exploitation are commonplace, and disproportionately targeted against teenage girls.”

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In her report, published on Tuesday, she wrote: “It (the Bill) holds the promise of, finally, regulating pornography sites and ensuring that they implement robust age verification to protect children.

“Now is a vital moment to ensure that we understand the impact of pornography on children’s lives, and to legislate for a commensurate response.”

The report’s findings – from a survey of 1,000 young people aged between 16 and 21 in England, and two focus groups of 13 to 19-year-olds – suggested Twitter is the platform where the highest percentage of children had seen pornography (41%).

This was followed by dedicated pornography sites (37%), Instagram (33%), Snapchat (32%) and search engines (30%).

Dame Rachel said all adults in responsible positions, such as politicians, policymakers, parents and teachers, must “listen and take seriously the views of young people contained within this report”, warning that it is “crucial that we do not miss the opportunity to make the internet safe for all children, today and in the future”.

Setting out her recommendations, the commissioner said risk assessment and safety duties relating to children are “key” when it comes to the Online Safety Bill.

She urged MPs to “define pornography as a harm to children on the face of the Online Safety Bill, such that the regulator, Ofcom, may implement regulation of platforms hosting adult content as soon as possible following the passage of the Bill”.

Dame Rachel said she will keep making the case for social networking platforms to protect children from harmful content ahead of the Bill’s implementation, urging them to do so through content moderation and effective age assurance and verification measures.

Richard Collard, NSPCC associate head of child safety online policy, said the report’s findings show “we cannot underestimate the sheer number of children of all ages that are being exposed to online pornography on a daily basis”.

He called for “strong measures” in the Online Safety Bill and said Ofcom should be given powers to set minimum standards “which ensure the rollout of robust age assurance measures on platforms where pornographic material can be viewed”.